Dementia and Wandering: How to Support Your Loved One at Home

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Creating a safe, comforting space for seniors with memory loss in Coral Gables and Miami

When a loved one is living with dementia, everyday routines can become complex—and sometimes, unsettling. One of the most common and distressing behaviors families face is wandering. It often stems from confusion or the desire to fulfill a task rooted in the past—like going to work, picking up the kids, or tending to a household chore.

Understandably, wandering can cause anxiety for caregivers. But it’s important to know that, in many cases, it’s not random. Instead, it may be your loved one’s way of trying to find meaning, comfort, or familiarity.

At Homewatch CareGivers of Coral Gables, we help families navigate these moments with compassion, safety, and dignity—creating environments where seniors with dementia can move freely and safely at home.

Why Do Seniors with Dementia Wander?

  • Wandering often serves a purpose, even if it doesn’t appear that way at first. Your loved one may be:
  • Feeling bored or under-stimulated
  • Experiencing discomfort (like needing the bathroom, feeling too cold or warm, or feeling unwell)
  • Trying to find something or someone
  • Searching for a sense of control or purpose
  • Reacting to anxiety, stress, or unfamiliar surroundings
  • Attempting to complete a familiar task from the past, such as organizing paperwork, gardening, or folding laundry

It’s not always realistic—or effective—to stop a person with dementia from wandering. Doing so may cause more distress, agitation, or confusion.

Instead, the goal is to facilitate safe wandering and support meaningful engagement in a secure, familiar environment.

Real-Life Insight: A Family’s Story in Coral Gables

When Carlos and his sister Sofia started noticing their mother, Teresa, wandering through the house late at night, they were understandably concerned. Sometimes she’d open the front door, convinced she needed to “go to work” or “pick up the kids.”

At first, they tried locking doors and redirecting her, but it often led to frustration or arguments. After speaking with a care coordinator at Homewatch CareGivers Coral Gables, they took a different approach—supporting her need to move while creating boundaries for safety.

With thoughtful changes to her environment and the help of a trained dementia caregiver, Teresa’s home became a safer, calmer place—and Carlos and Sofia could breathe easier knowing she was well-supported.

How to Create a Safer Environment for Wandering at Home

If your loved one is wandering, here are some proactive steps you can take to support them while protecting their safety:

1. Use Technology Thoughtfully

  • Install door alarms or motion sensors to alert you if a door is opened at night.
  • Consider a video monitoring system to keep an eye on movement, especially during high-risk times.

2. Make the Home Senior-Safe and Wander-Friendly

  • Place nightlights in hallways and bathrooms to reduce fall risk.
  • Keep walkways clear and remove rugs or loose cords that could cause tripping.
  • Use visual cues or door covers (like wraps that look like bookshelves or “stop” signs) to discourage access to unsafe areas.

3. Create Outdoor Boundaries

  • If possible, set up a fenced-in yard or enclosed patio, allowing your loved one to enjoy the outdoors safely.
  • Inform trusted neighbors about your loved one’s condition and ask them to call you if they notice them outside unsupervised.

4. Encourage Familiar and Purposeful Activities

Give your loved one something meaningful to do that connects to their identity or past routines:

  • If they used to teach, prepare simple worksheets to “grade” or organize papers.
  • If they loved homemaking, leave towels to fold or socks to match.
  • Keep safe, familiar objects nearby—like keys, a purse, or a wallet—to offer comfort and redirection.

5. Get Professional Support from Dementia Care Experts

One of the most effective ways to support a loved one with dementia is to bring in a professional caregiver trained in memory care. At Homewatch CareGivers of Coral Gables, our team is skilled in:

  • Understanding dementia-related behaviors
  • Creating calming routines
  • Engaging seniors with meaningful, age-appropriate activities
  • Supporting families through difficult transitions

When It’s Time to Ask for Help

Caring for a loved one with dementia is an act of love—but it’s also exhausting, especially when wandering becomes a safety concern. You don’t have to navigate it alone.

At Homewatch CareGivers of Coral Gables, we specialize in dementia and Alzheimer’s care that meets your loved one where they are—with patience, respect, and understanding. Whether you need a few hours of support or 24-hour care, our team is here to help.

📞 Call us today for a free consultation and let’s talk about how we can support your family.

Why Families in Coral Gables Trust Homewatch CareGivers

✔ Over 40 years of experience in compassionate home care
✔ Personalized care plans tailored to your loved one’s needs
✔ Caregivers trained in dementia and memory care
✔ Flexible scheduling—whether you need part-time, full-time, or 24/7 care
✔ Local support from a team that understands the Coral Gables and Miami community

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